enable upload on appveyor

enable both c++ ABI builds

make unit tests a build option, speeds up CI builds

disable unit tests running on OSX

use DYLD_FALLBACK_LIBRARY_PATH instead of DYLD_LIBRARY_PATH

fix missing DYLD_LIBRARY_PATH in OSX Travis CI

try again with dyld patching on OSX

try to add cxx standard on needed platforms

try to fix travis yml file

add badges

start on bincrafters style package for RTTI - cherry pick from master

bincrafters CI files imported

try enabling OSX builds

somewhat tested -ldl fix now

fix missing -ldl